About
What is Confident*Little? I created this website because I wanted somthing for the little community that focused on more than just a kink. We're more than that and it seemed there was nowhere to really express that that was specifically for littles such as myself. To learn more about me, click here.
What is a Little?
This is a common question in our community. There are several answers to this broad question because everyone is different, but I will give my answer and what it is to me. A little is generally a submissive who identifies with their inner child. Most littles prefer nurturing and guidance from their partners in their D/s relationships. Many littles (or at least my friends and I) have colorful and childlike interests but this is not always true. Again, everyone is different. Though typically childlike, that doesn't mean we can't function on our own. Many of us are successful with school, jobs, and other big ol' adult stuff.
Who can be a Little?
That's easy to an one to answer! Anyone! It doesn't matter if you are tall, short, skinny, curvy, petite, white, black, anything! If you are little, then you just are. Simple as that!
Is it incest?
NO. Being in a dd/lg (or any other form) relationship has nothing to do with the following: incest, pedophilia, and it is not always a fetish. We do not date our parents or children; whatever you call your partner, be it Daddy or Mommy or anything else, it is a term of endearment. It is used because, in our little eyes, the caregiver is the most important person to you.
Is this a fetish?
No. Not all littles are in sexual relationships with their caregiver and not all even want it to be. Being a little, to me, is about innocence, relaxing, and being able to let my inner child out in a safe, constructive way. It is knowing that I am loved and that I don't have to worry about the normal stressors in life. I can relax and ease into a simpler state of mind and just being myself. That's what being little is to me. However, some littles, to include myself on occasions, enjoy engaging in age play. To me, age play is sexual. The key word is play. Either way, sexual or not, is a-okay!
All in all, everyone is different and allowed to be who they are. Don't judge and be happy with yourself. This is sometimes easier said than done, but remember you are beautiful just the way you are!
